Everyone is different and captures every moment differently from the person next to them. Not a single person has the same neurological connections as the person next to them. This is the difference between people.
Everybody goes through events and consequences in their life which shape their personality and their emotional perception. Some people take the lesson and move on, whilst others sit and mourn until their feelings start to change.
The difference between the two types of people is simple;
1. Natural Strength is the ability to keep moving forward because your mind is able to process the images, voices, etc without having to connect to their emotional side, without hesitation, they face the struggle and find ways to conquer it. Just because.
2. Acquired Strength is a slow and timely process that takes years of suffering and experience in order to develop the will to move on, every event that has significant impact will create a memory and a way to deal with the situation should it come around again .
Neither is better but in order to it vital to understand that failing is a part of life that should be taken positively rather than negatively. People with natural strength do not have to worry about building strength through experience but rather will use their instinct to push through the situation and then acquire the lesson. In other words, they use their strength to learn the lesson rather than build strength through the learning process.
You cannot build natural strength. It runs deep in the blood.
